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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Saw the sun for a minute

Just before I rolled over this a.m.,the sun was caressing my face. Now, where is it? Gone, and it might remain hidden the rest of the week. A lady I spoke with at The Club yesterday said it was going to be stormy all week, which she is sad about, as her son is getting married in St. Augustine this weekend. Rats! I know the couple whose son is getting married from my Eagle Harbor days and usually see them at special events only at The Club. Gail and I had a serving of cotton candy together just as the man was getting ready to haul the machine off. In my humble opinion, the cotton candy machine, snow cone machine and ice cream sundae bar should have stayed in place until after the kids’ water games were over. Surely they would be ready for a special treat after working so hard to win their ribbons.

Tonight I will sleep on freshly washed sheets, always allows for a good night’s rest. Last night I had tough time falling asleep, likely because I did not have enough exercise in the pool. That’s my story and I am sticking to it! The water was chilly and it seems I can stay warmer by keeping my upper body out of the water while moving my legs but sometimes I stopped peddling and only stood while visiting. This evenings’ rest will be welcome, for sure!

When I got out to the pool, Gigi was situated at a table nearer to The Palace, and told me Frank, her hubby, stayed home that day to putter in the garage or something. His loss! Marlena had told our group on Thursday that she would reserve a table for us, since some of the older folks did not like to come to pool events when they cannot find a place to sit. ‘Our’ table had a reserved sign on it, plus she taped one on that said VIP. Gigi did not like that very well, wondering why she was not a VIP and who was, until I told her it was my table! After a certain point, I had Mary Lew remove the VIP sign, (we don’t want any trouble, right?) and invited others to sit around this table. Maggie O. came out for the sun and fun and lunch, which we enjoyed at The Club instead of from the cabana. The buffet was quite nice, and only a few dollars more than the cabana food would cost. I did not even have an adult beverage yesterday!!

As I got situated in the pool with my Diet Coke in a can cozy, Maggie remarked that she was thinking about me that morning, thinking about how much I enjoy my Diet Coke, and how that made her happy. Now, isn’t that nice? I love that!

When I look out my window, I see about a hundred love bugs flying around wwaayy up here. What is up with that? Once in awhile the bugs land on the window but do not stay very long. I would expect that birds would be in search of this good eatin’ but none have been swooping or anything, as far as I can see. The car wash places will so happy to see the squished love bugs on the front of cars…good for business!

During the children’s games yesterday, I brought a few folks from the pool, some regulars, to see my home. The ‘man’ in the group, Zach, was telling about being Italian and bragging about how clean he keeps his home. (Seinfeld episode: “He’s thin, he’s neat, he’s single…Not that there’s anything wrong with that….”) Zach is not thin, but he is a hairdresser! For real! None of us wanted to sit down there and hear that relentless whistle for the games so I gave free tours. They were blown away by the views and the glass pieces, and were most complimentary of my taste. Marsha told me that it is so homey, and this is a high, high compliment to me. No one can believe the amazing views, front and back, and I hate it that it is taken for granted by me sometimes.

Last week, when Lynn was here yet, Zach came up to me in the pool and told me once more how much he loves my hair. He did suggest that I make all my bangs blonde and not just the one section, “not anything too out there…” he said. I explained that I did not make my hair blonde, that God added the silver and the blonde, not me. Zach was astonished, thinking I was quite clever adding a touch of non-color to my hair. Yesterday he was exclaiming that I was the prettiest woman in The Palace, which Gigi fussed about, because she did not hear him say “The Palace”. She is his client, after all! It just was not her day yesterday! Of course, I declared that Pat is the prettiest woman in my building, a former Miss Orange Park and all that, but I appreciated the attempt to flatter.

Well, my desk is getting loaded down with paperwork and I am making zero progress in plowing through it. Part of my project is to put together a report to present regarding the Worship Conference but I keep tap dancing around it, much to the chagrin of my downstairs neighbors! Gave up clogging for tap shoes!

Monday, September 5, 2011

My noodle wins the games!

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I absolutely refused to play the water games this year, after telling Mary Lew and Marlena all week that I was not participating, They did not believe me, but I showed them! Stubbornly, I sat poolside while my noodle raced across the pool. Mary Lew thought I should be credited for winning since it was my noodle, and I said, "Why not? Race car drivers don't actually own those cars they drive!" She said, "You're the only one who would think of that!" Not sure if this is true or not, but I am correct!

Showing up as an 'also ran' in the yellow hat is my neighbor, Pat. The teal noodle, mine, can be seen in the top photo, off to the left of the frame. Whoo hoo!!!



Sunday, September 4, 2011

What a difference a week makes!

It is about 15-20 degrees cooler today than it was last week at this time, but I sure would not wish to be on the deck at Joe’s today. It has been overcast and grumpy all day long, with threats of rain, but none fell here, as far as I know. I have stayed in my church clothes since this a.m. instead of changing as quickly as a fireman to get out to the pool. Hopefully yesterday was not my last day in the pool for the season!

It was a grande day on Saturday, with Lee coming out to hang with me the majority of the time. Rick and Fran were not able to make it as they had projects at home to take care of instead. Fran may come tomorrow without Rick unless the weather stinks, as is predicted. Boo, hiss, boo! There are great plans made to celebrate the end of summer including having a lunch buffet, snow cones, a bouncy house, and the best part---cotton candy! Oooh, I love that stuff! If they do not have enough reservations, the buffet might be moved to the cabana and I will be in luck with enjoying some of those foods in addition to the regular fare. Again weather permitting!

Danny was lamenting his not being able to use the Gator game tickets Fran offered him for last night’s game, as he was stuck at work, cooking for me, and a few other folks. I was so glad others did come out so I did not feel as badly about it for him. Instead, she gave him a set to use next week which replaced his sorrow with glee. The cabana TV was not geared to pick up the game so Pat and her beau went back into the house to watch. Randy and Carol came for dinner, having the fish wraps, and then came up to my house so I could give Randy the book “My Stroke of Insight” which Mary from aerobics had recommended. Finally I was able to return a video to Carol, borrowed last year, which I never got to watch as my VCR quit working. Rats! She might order it on DVD and then I will be back in business. It was about Italy but I cannot recall the name at this moment. Carol sent me an e-mail this a.m. to thank me for letting them come up to see my place. Very nice of her! She also wanted to know where I got my blue cabinet door hardware…

This morning, thinking there was no Bible study because of the holiday weekend, I stayed home and listened to a service from Morton Grove, IL. It was great to hear a familiar voice, the both spoken and sung Word. Later this afternoon, I played their closing hymn over the phone for my mom to hear, for old times’ sake, “Abide with Me”. *sigh*

Anyway, when I got to church, Judy C. met me in the breezeway and told me she missed me at Bible study. Rats! My mistake…After church, Michael invited me to join his mom and his friend, Nicole, at St. Johns Seafood for lunch. Since it was cloudy, I immediately accepted and enjoyed my fried Pollack meal. We get a discount by presenting our church bulletin and I teased the lady that she did not even check the date on it. Mike said I go only once a year, keep the bulletin to use week after week! I found that amusing! His friend is a former student from when he taught in Green Bay and she came down this way to visit her godchildren in southern GA. Her mom is friends with one of the teachers at FG! Judy laughed about that, telling Nicole that I always find a connection somehow or another. A WELS Connection!

Since there was no football today, I watched instead a very interesting program on CSPAN where books and their authors are featured. The author whose lecture I enjoyed is a guest host on one of the radio shows I listen to, and is an amazing author. I have a couple of his books on the shelf already, a captivating writer and has a charming British accent. I really was hoping to find a program about the terror attacks which took place 10 years ago but found nothing. If push comes to shove, I have my own DVDs to watch but would need to plug in the player. Such a bother!

Saturday, September 3, 2011

It’s that time of the month here again…

…which is why my bed is piled with mail collected from the box in the lobby when I came home last night. Like many other folks, I look forward to getting something in the mail in the early part of the month. While normally I am not a fan of stopping at the mail box often, in anticipation of my important envelope, I will stop to check a bit more regularly. One time, I got a call from my neighbor, Hugh, on behalf of the mailman, who was wondering if I was on vacation because my box was so full. No, Hugh, I am up here in my loft, just hanging out, and yes, I will come down at some point to collect my accumulated mail.

Yesterday at the pool, I was chatting with my friend, Rick, who is a pharmacist at a Wal*Mart in this area. My friend, Ed, was reporting on the 1st of the month that he was rehearsing being polite to people, bracing for going to the commissary on military payday to restock the shelves of their home. On Facebook, I asked him why he needed to go actually on payday instead of waiting for the fervor to ease.

Rick told me how busy it gets at the store where he works, in particular when the retired military folks come in and demand their prescriptions be refilled---and won't take 'no' for an answer. Not fully understanding how it all works with that type of insurance, I still appreciated Rick’s take on it, when he explains to the customer that they have to wait a week before ‘it is released’. For some reason their insurance does not match up with the first or 15th of the month paydays (I guess) and the customers get ferocious about it---every month!

Rick said he will tell the customer that they actually CAN get their prescriptions filled and take them home that day, but they have to pay out of pocket for them. “Well, how much is it?” “$300 for this one, $125 for this one…” “Oh, I’ll just come back next week…” He said it’s remarkable how the attitude changes, the most challenging customer is humbled when presented with the numbers, the personalizing of the cost of the medications. Insurance is such an important factor and for some reason, the military insurance and the pay days do not coincide. Folks have to make a second trip out. My question remains though…why go on the actual date instead of waiting a week, when it all lines up?

Jerry Seinfeld does a bit about why the pharmacist is perched up higher than the customer is, like he has a lofty position as compared to others. Jerry’s question is how does the pharmacist get those tiny pieces of paper into the typewriter to put the information on the labels for the bottles. Hmmm???

A month or so ago, Justin and I were at Publix, amazed at how busy it was. He asked me, “You do know what day it is, don’t you?”, and I had to think for a moment, because half the time, I don’t!! It was the 3rd of the month, when the State and Federal checks come out, and so do the people who get them. When it was only he and I at home years back, we would avoid the grocery stores or department stores on those days, simply because of the mess of folks. Unless it’s a soda run, however, when all bets are then off!

Friday, September 2, 2011

What a nice day it was today!

Breezy and a bit cooler outside, more temperate weather this week than last was for Linda, I am afraid. Randy, the sole man from our water exercise class, reported that the water temperature has dropped two degrees since he checked it on the weekend. I knew that it was at least two degrees cooler for sure but the sun today was so lovely, it helped to keep me warm. Rick and Fran were at the pool as well, plus a few other folks that I knew, so it was just wonderful being with them all. Danny made me a very nice hot dog for lunch, with a most tasty potato salad. Yes, I had potato salad twice in a week! The one at lunch had bacon in it, which Danny told me was made by his frying the bacon and then sautéing the diced onion in the grease. Then, he added that to the rest of the potato salad mixings. Delicious!

Before I went out for Happy Hour at the pool this evening, I was working on the newsletter for The Palace. Only a day or two late but well worth the delay! I did a bit of research when I was writing about the antique shoppe owned by one of my neighbors. In so doing, I found a website dedicated to reuniting lost photos and documents with their owners. The items on the site were found by strangers after the tornado tore through part of Louisiana in the springtime. There were family photos, school pictures, and even an intact baptismal certificate, waiting to be claimed by their owners, or by anyone who could identify the people in the photos. What a wonderful service someone is offering for those separated from their special photos and papers. Some of the items were marked as being claimed, which was heartwarming to know. Others told where the artifacts were found, often counties away from where the tornado struck. So unreal what a storm such as that can do!

Yesterday I had a long visit my sister-in-law, Mona, catching up on the family news. My niece, Allie, is about to begin her first year of college, taking classes at the local ‘branch’ of UW to get her started. She also works two jobs so I wonder if one will have to go away when school begins, or if she can juggle the whole load. My nephew, JR, serving now in Afghanistan, was able to call them last week, not an easy thing to do from there. He can Skype, which is video chatting via the computer, but that has to be scheduled so both ends are available. And there is always Facebook! After his service time in Afghanistan is over, he will return to Germany again for a period of time. Mona could not remember how long that would be but did assure me she had no intention of flying over there to visit him or tour the area.

While I was talking with her, Justin came to the door so I had to let Mona go. Justin quickly took a shower and changed his clothes for attending the Jaguar game. He loved the new shoes I got him at Payless, coating them with baby powder to soothe his hot feet. Before he left for the game, I gave him some money so he could perhaps purchase the special Jaguar t-shirt for the September 11th game, and he was able to find one there. Saved me another trip to the Mall, which I greatly appreciated!

Back to tonight---after sitting poolside with my friends and neighbors, I went to Winn Dixie to get some soda. At first, as I told Justin, I was just going to order pizza so I could get the soda delivered, but since I was dressed for Happy Hour, decided to go to the store. Penny, my friend, laughed at me when I told her my plan, and told me she wishes for a life like mine. A couple times a week I have to get fully clothed, but otherwise, I go from night gown to swim suit and back to night gown. Unless I need soda, that is!

Thursday, September 1, 2011

The doors are open!

Ah….nice breeze from the river moving through the rooms, making the ceiling fan in the river room move without electricity. Nothing wild going on outside, only a gentle breeze. Only a few moments ago I got home from the Cracker Barrel where I had dinner with Judy J. and Terri T. A couple months ago I was with Judy when we saw Cliff and Carol there for their date night. Sure enough, Terri looked up and saw them coming up to the restaurant! We just had to chuckle about that and told them when they came over to our table how we talked about them. Tomorrow they have to run to their house in the mountains to meet someone, so will be away for the weekend. I will be minus one meeting this week then as I was planning one with Carol. It can wait, just so we don’t forget our subject matter!

The Jaguar game is on right now, no score at this moment. Justin sent me an excited text message to report that our host from Trivia is seated in their row at the game. Justin popped in here for a few minutes this evening to take a quick shower, change his clothes, and put on the new shoes I picked up for him today at Payless. They had a BO/GO deal going on so in addition to my shoes, I got some for him. He loved them!

I had no success in getting Justin's special Jaguar shirt I was looking for but the store manager gave me a card so I can call there tomorrow when the next shipment comes in, and they will put one on the side for me. It is special for the opening game on September 11. He can get one game day but hates to wait and possibly miss out or not get one in his size. Justin is quite excited about attending that game, besides the football portion, he is quite interested in the special events planned to commemorate the anniversary of the terror attacks. Glad to know he feels so strongly about it!

This afternoon I talked on the phone with my sis-in-law until Justin came in. As I hung up with Mona, tucking the phone away, he got his phone out to look up something. We could hear talking and wondered where it was coming from. I thought it was his phone but he said it was not so I checked mine, hearing Tommy J. asking if I butt dialed him. Oh no! Accidentally, when putting my phone away, I must have pushed the button to dial Linda's cell phone. Laughing, I told Linda I would call her back after Justin left again, which I did, and finished our laugh. She is back at her busy busy life, today having the ladies come in for assembling the church newsletter, running errands, and even time for her afternoon nap! Mom told me earlier that Pastor R. had to repair her walker so she could get home again---seems she blew a hubcap or something when getting it from the trunk of the car when Jill dropped her off. Thanks, Pastor!!

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Wah, wah, wah!!!

One of my favorite “Seinfeld” episodes is on and I am already laughing in anticipation. And it is so naughty that I love it but what can I say??? “You’ll be out before we get the check…” (Jerry to Kramer). Yeah, you know the one….

I made myself a nice sandwich for my dinner a few minutes ago, instead of having the planned Koko’s leftovers as I really was not hungry enough for them. My lunch today was enjoyed poolside, a special treat on Maggie, in order for her to reach her monthly minimum. I do not have that problem in the summer time, especially with the cabana open, but they close this year right after Labor Day. Last year they stayed open through the end of the month, on the weekends, so folks could sit out there and watch the football games while enjoying some refreshment with food. Guess the management thought better of it this year. Rats for me, so to speak. I even considered having Sylvia make me a bunch of burgers so I could fill my freezer for the winter months, like a squirrel storing up nuts!

By the look of the branches moving outside, it seems like it must be windy tonight. Not the kind of wind one could hear but enough to move the palms. Earlier I turned on the A/C just to make sure it was working as my neighbor, Rose, called to ask if mine was working okay. As of yesterday it did but I turned it on again tonight to verify that is fine. Hers is on the fritz, so I offered her my spare bed in case her hubby and she needed to stay in air conditioning. Yes, I could do it one more night….But she said they would be okay, but appreciated my offer. She seemed surprised that I did not have mine in the “ON” position but it was only 81 in here tonight and I was just fine.

The first part of my day included laundering the towels and bed clothes from my guests before going out to the pool. Since the sun was not coming out this a.m., I was thinking of skipping the water exercises but the sun did peek out, so I did too! What I figured I would do, if missing the class, was make sure I was there for lunch with Maggie. Priorities! My choice was a cheeseburger with fruit and cottage cheese as my side dish, since I am not a fan of the fries, and ate all my fruit and all my burger. Last night at Trivia I ate every bit of my burger, as though it was my last meal. I am quite the nut for burgers (see two paragraphs above!)

When I came in from the pool, I loaded my soda cans into a lovely bag that Marlena sent upstairs with me, cleaning off my stove top. The bag will work well for me to take the cans and water bottles to the recycling area in the garbage closet downstairs. How incredibly annoying it is to do this but I succumbed to the pressure of worshipping at that altar. But I promised Connie I would do it under the guise of having less expense with the dumpster fees. Hopefully someone is tracking the actual savings and will let me know. I suspect nothing will change as far as weekly pick-ups go, as the smell would get to be quite something if it sat longer than week!

The lady who is taking Connie’s place while she is off for a knee procedure, Jane, was being trained today. Jane is the same lady who, the other day, asked how the pool was for us ladies. Lynn and Linda said it was good but, I, of course, said it was a bit cool for my tastes. Jane nicely replied, “Oh, wah, wah, wah!” which made us all laugh. Yup, that’s my mantra, “wah, wah, wah!”