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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

I got those wedding dress blues

Actually, I have quite the contrary as Justin has dug out the bin from the "Timmy closet" which stored my wedding dress. The dress looks like brand-new yet, but is wrinkled from being in the bin so tightly layered. Justin is having a fit, seeing my 'tiny' dresses from 100 years ago (ahem, ahem), some which he has declared to be 'vintage'. 

One particular dress was a favorite of mine, made for me by my sister, Lynn, when I was in high school. It looks exactly like something I would wear now, if I could. The dress of many colors was worn with tights, depending upon the day---I wore turquoise tights, or maize or purple...Boy, I loved that dress! Justin wanted to lend it to his friend, Rose, to wear because she likes 'vintage' clothes but I said no to that.

One dress, which I called my panther dress, I used to wear with black lace up boots. I think the dress, one of the few store-bought ones I had, was purchased at Maurices' in the Mid-Cities Mall. In the bin was also a wool suit that Mom made for me to wear to my sister-in-law's wedding in 1973. The skirt is as long as it is wide, a mini-skirt, green and blue plaid. The uncontructed jacket was solid green and I wore a gold blouse with it. And the black boots!

Two of my dresses which were made by Mom or one of my sisters (I am sorry if I can't remember who made them) which I wore for our Junior/Senior banquets (1973 and 1974) are in there, too. The same pattern as my 'formal' for the '74 banquet was used for the wedding dress, which was only a few months later. 

There are two crew-neck solid colored sweaters in the bin, bought for me by my dad when he and I went shopping. Yes, my dad took me shopping, as he was teaching me how to drive. Those two sweaters were pretty tame, and I think I wore one of them for my Senior class picture. At the bottom of the bin is a cowl-necked blue marled yarn sweater which my boyfriend had gotten me in 1972. I wore it for my class picture when I was a Junior, I think. Time to get out the yearbook, it seems!  
This is NOT how I wore my hair on the actual wedding day. The circle of flowers was on top of my head, around a bun. 

A young lady from the congregation might be able to wear my wedding dress (it is not considered a gown, though Justin teases me that it's a nightie!) and she will try it on Thursday night after church. I hope she can wear it and agrees to model it. Her mom has to work that day so Meghan will be my daughter for the event. Yay!

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

I have 'bin' meaning to do this

Our Ladies' Group is having a Mother/Daughter event in early May using the theme of weddings. Part of the fun is going to be ladies modeling or displaying their wedding dresses, or finding someone else who can model their dresses. The search began at my house a week or so ago, with me going through bins in my closet to see if my dress was packed away in there. 
Oh, my! What great fun that was! A couple of the bins were still taped shut from my move in 2004 (I'm fairly certain) and have been secreted in my closet since the remodeling was done in 2007. If it's ten years or eight years, it has still has been a long time since I've seen these garments. Many of the pieces are still my size but seem to fit me a bit differently. Rita, my friend from Victory, and I were talking about it at Bible study, how much gravity there seems to be these days!

I found one piece that I had given up as lost---a knit poncho given me by the mother of Justin's friend, Jesse, for my birthday many years ago. Fearing I had left it lay in a restaurant or somewhere, there it was in the bin. What great fun to see these old garments again! 

I decided that since they didn't flatter me, they might serve someone else nicely. I offered them to Betty at church first. She took the bins home and picked out what she wanted. Justin put them back in the car, still full. Betty cleaned out her closet and put stuff in to go to the next person. Love this! I had thought of Amber but missed talking with her on Sunday, as I was busy after church. 

I had gotten an e-mail from a friend who lives south of me on the river. I snitch sunrise photos from her once in awhile. She is trying to find work for a Haitian family she has taken under her wing. While I don't have yard work or anything they can do right now, I do have two bins of clothes in my car to share with them. 

I dropped them off today as I ran my errands. In his broken English, Jean told me his daughter who can use the clothes is his 8th child. Oh, my! I hope his wife and daughter can make good use of the clothing and I will enjoy having more space in my closet!

Monday, April 14, 2014

I have 'Rome-ing' thoughts

Last night as I was lying in bed, waiting for sleep, I had turned on "Everybody Loves Raymond". This was NOT my first choice for laughing myself to sleep but I didn't care for the "Friends" episode showing. I am so glad I chose 'Raymond' because it was an episode I very much enjoy. The matriarch of the family takes them all on a trip to the homeland, Italy, and in particular, to the region around Rome. 

They showed a great deal of the scenery around the place where the Barone's were staying, with 'family', and also the tourist spots in Rome, except for the Vatican or St. Peter's Square. The city streets, Trevi Fountain, the Spanish Steps, the Coliseum, and other famous sites were shown. I can't remember now if I had been thinking about Rome/Italy prior to this or not but after I saw it, I sure was!
Taken in 2006

As I snuggled in my bed, I remembered the wonderful trips I have had to Rome and to Italy, the memories made there---wow! One of the trips made with Justin, in 2006, I was just worn out after traipsing around in the ancient ruins of Rome. When our bus took us to the next exhibit, I opted out, and some very nice ladies from our ship took custody of Justin. He went inside "St. Paul in Chains" and was absolutely blown away by it. I sat on a half-wall outside, across from our bus, and let my feet hang down. 
All of sudden, as I sat there, a huge commotion broke out, and a great celebration began. The Vespas and other vehicles were roaring up and down the street with people waving their Italian flags, horns were honking, the whole shootin' match. After a certain point, I made my way across the street to the bus, for safety and assurance, and I asked the driver what was going on. He reported that the Italians had won a major soccer event, prompting the celebration. I remember thinking, "Soccer? Really?", but it's huge in Europe. 

The parade up and down the street went on for some time and we saw more of it as we drove through the streets back to the ship. People were out on their balconies waving flags in the air and yelling with joy. Those are fans!

It was this day, also, when our bus could not make a very tight curve, under an overpass, due to a car parked where it should not be. Not only could our bus not get through, but we couldn't go backward, either, as the stream of cars was lined up behind us!!! The driver honked and honked and honked, and eventually some guys came out of a bar to see what was up. 

One passenger plus our driver got off the bus to assess the situation. Sure enough, the group of guys, ours included, picked up that offending car, and put it on the sidewalk!!!  There!!, and away we went, with that long trail of cars behind us!  Justin and I won't ever forget that, I hope, and I appreciate this TV show for prompting my memory of this wonderful trip we had!

Sunday, April 13, 2014

Some passing pictures

Cliff standing on the corporate ladder at church, painting the trim along the front, as the ground under him was being pressure washed. I considered having the washing done before the yard work was completed as to washing the kitchen table when all the dishes are still on it...
My sister, Kerry, sent me this picture of herself holding a giant chunk of ice on the shore of Lake Winnebago. Ice shoves were moving onto the land around the lake, being pushed along by the wind. She said it was incredible what she saw as she drove around the lake, wondering when people decide it's time to get out of their homes....
While Kerry is hauling off giant chunks of ice, I am enjoying the view from my window of this passing ship on the river. This is far larger than most vessels I see, probably had work done in the dry-dock in Green Cove Springs. 
The evening sun was setting and beautifully highlighted the palm trees as they blew in the wind
Just another gorgeous sunrise I don't mind sharing

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Love the smell of citrus

Today was a scheduled work day at church to get the yard ready for Easter. We were allowed to make contributions toward the purchase of mulch and flowers. I did that since my yard work days are behind me, in more ways than one. I was going to let my checkbook do the work for me until an e-mail arrived yesterday informing the members that it was an inside and out work day. Oh, now that's different!

Justin told me last Sunday how awful the property looks and what a big difference Raymond and he could make if they had the chance to do so. I offered to buy some of their time if they could swing by to do some work during their already packed schedule. Justin said he'd look things over and get with Will to see what could be done.
Mike is saying, "Oh, Kimmie....." In the background is Renee, spreading mulch

He got back to me a few days ago saying they could do an hour's work on Thursday as their route took them that direction. One hour and they can do a whole lot, mostly grooming things, like edging and blowing. I am getting the 'discount' rate for charity, according to his boss. Nice! Mike S. and Justin talked about all this and are going to coordinate on what and where their attention will be needed. Mike S. does this for a living as well, so those two guys are a good team!

Since this was now supposedly an 'inside' day too, I went over with my spray bottle of multi-surface citrus Pledge with the goal of wiping off the hymnals and Bibles. My personal mission is to have no sticky handmarks on the covers. When I arrived, people were quite busy with weeding and mulching. I walked around and greeted everyone. Janet looked at me with my bags of stuff, and my Diet Coke. "You look so fresh, with your bottle of soda...You know where we want to put that bottle of soda?" (She is so earthy!) I laughed and said, "In the fridge?" She mocked me, saying I was a prima donna which prompted me to sing that song from "The Phantom of the Opera". She was not amused! I told her if she wanted me, to look in the church, but I wouldn't tell her what I was doing. No one else was there for 'inside' cleaning. Guess that was misprint or something.

Mostly I was alone in the sanctuary, listening to Sarah Brightman on my iPhone as I sprayed and polished. Pastor and Nathan, his son, were working on the MIDI and speakers for next Sunday's outdoor service, so I kept the volume down. At one point, Pastor thought it was me doing the singing. Now that's a compliment! 
Here find Janet, Ellen, and Judy working on the beds along the side of the church

After Pastor went outside it was just Nathan and me. I showed him the filth I was getting off the pew books and he was surprised to see how much build-up there is. It's been a few years since I've done this the last time (I do 'my' hymnal in 'my' pew as needed). 

At one point I could hear lots of voices in the breezeway but figured folks were taking a break. Pastor poked his head in and invited busy Nathan and me to join the rabble for lunch. I sat next to Janet to eat and she sneared at me, "You're still fresh..." and I said, "Minty fresh!" Such a girl she is! 

After lunch the crew got busy again, as did I, listening to some Leonard Cohen while I worked. Carol came in to do some altar stuff so we talked for a bit, me multi-tasking. But, before I got to the end of my project, I ran out of Pledge. Nuts! I have about three rows to go plus the scattered hymnals and Bibles so will have to pick up more citrus cleaner (should be minty!) and finish the task during the week. I am such a prima donna!

Friday, April 11, 2014

Breakfast Club coming to an end

This morning I walked over to The Club for breakfast, this time only Nancy W. and me. It seems things are winding down a bit as folks are gearing up for summer activites. The sun was just getting past the edge of the building and shined across the lawn, highlighting the bright yellow flowers which line the stream. I was struck by them and snapped a picture:
The buffet was set up in a different room this a.m. and offered ham rather than sausages with the bacon. Kathy, the continental breakfast hostess, is also the baker, and made a delightful coffee cake with cranberries and almonds in it. I complimented her on it and she said she tries to find different ways to jazz things up since the boss told her not to use icing anymore. Obviously, I am not her boss!

Nancy had a full day in front of her so we parted company around 10:00. The pool guys had been by and had the water so nicely cleaned up. When I got upstairs, I looked back at the pools and noticed a lovely layer of film on the surface---that confounded pollen! The porch rails are coated in it, waiting for Connie to get back from vacation to hose things off yet again. Can't wait 'til this is over and I can open my doors without coating my furniture in it!

Judy J. told me her grandson and family were coming for a visit, asking me if they can come by to see the manatees in the basin. Of course, they can! I'd love that. I called her to confirm the arrival date and such to make sure I was around that day, etc. She was chuckling about my excitement regarding their visit, and I told her I needed to know so I could do the dusting. Judy about fell of her chair! I told her my dining room table is so dusty, that when I laid something on it, I couldn't find it again.  She said she was having a bad day prior to my call and now she was laughing at my dusty furniture! You'd have to see it to believe it!

Thursday, April 10, 2014

What you "Noah" won't hurt you

Today at Bible study, Pastor H. asked if any of us had seen the movie, "Noah". Most of us said we had not or would not, but one lady, Dawn, reported buying the ticket but ended up walking out. "I couldn't take it, I just couldn't take it..." she sighed. It wasn't even close to the Biblical account. The man who made the movie declared it would be as unbiblical as possible, and he was true to his word.

Pastor told us he did buy the ticket and stayed through the end, because he had to see what the hubbub was about. He took away several valuable things from it, including some of what the news articles and other reports indicated. One such thing was Noah's referring to the animals as the "innocents".  Supposedly Noah was to build the ark to save the animals rather than to save the remnant of believers from God's destruction. 

Pastor said the producers did very thoroughly picture the depravity of man, which is good, but sadly, that did not actually figure into the reason for the flood. The worship of the world and the animals is evident throughout the movie, which ties it into today. 

People love animals almost more than they do humans (picturing the infomercials for SPCA and other animal rescue stuff). The producers of the movie determined that God (or rather, Creator) was angry at man for killing and eating the animals, and depleting the earth of its resources, so he was sending the flood. This appeals to the animal folks and the environmentalists. "Gaia" worship rather than worship the True God who created it all! 
Those gathered for class talked about the animals on the ark, wondering how all those larger animals fit. Harold mentioned that they did not necessarily have to be full-grown ones, they could have been quite young when on the ark. Those we have no more among us might have died off after the flood, not being able to adapt to the change in the atmosphere and such post-flood. Lots of interesting discussion and speculation---I just love this class!

Pastor H. was glad he stayed through it, helping him get the perspective of the world and what's being thrown around out there. I still won't go see it but appreciated his take on it, and that of Dawn, before she walked out!