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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Friday, December 25, 2009

As the old year is passing away......

Observations On Growing Older

* It's harder to tell navy from black.
* Everything old is new again, but if you wore it before, you're too old to wear it the 2nd time around.

* Your kids are becoming you -- and you don't like them, but your grandchildren are perfect!

* Yellow becomes the big color -- walls need paint, hair need tinting, teeth need whitening.

* Going out is good; coming home is better!

* When people say you look "Great", they add, "for your age"!

* When you needed the discount you paid full price. Now you get discounts on everything -- movies, hotels, flights.

* You forget names, but it's OK because other people forgot they ever knew you.

* The last 2 outfits you wore had spots on them.

* You ask your husband or friend how your outfit looks, and they tell you the truth.

* The five pounds you wanted to lose is now 15, and you have a better chance of losing your keys than the 15 pounds.

* You realize you're never going to be really good at anything -- especially golf.

* The things you cared to do, you don't care to do, but you care that you don't care to do them anymore.
* Remember when your mother said "Wear clean underwear in case you GET in an accident"? Now you bring clean underwear in case you HAVE an accident. Won't they cut them off anyway?
* You used to say, "I hope my kids GET married; now it's, "I hope they STAY married!"

* Who wants to wear 3" heels anyway?

* You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch.

* When GOOGLE, ipod, email, modem were unheard of and a mouse was something that made you climb on a table.

* You use more 4 letter words -- "what?"..."when?"
and "where's my"
* Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.

* You read 100 pages into a book before you realize you've read it.
* Notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?

* Many of the people in People Magazine you've never heard of.

* Your concealer doesn't conceal.

* Your lipstick bleeds.

* Your mascara clumps, and your eyebrows are disappearing.

* You don't have hair under your arms and very little on your legs, but your chin needs to be plucked daily.

* What used to be freckles are now liver spots.

* Everybody whispers.

* Now that your husband has retired, you'd give anything if he'd find a job.

* You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet, 2 of which you will never wear again.

* But old is good in some things -- old songs, old movies, and best of all -- old friends!

Sent to me by my oldest sister, Carol. This had my name written all over it!!! Except the retired husband part, of course....

CHRISTmas Joy!

My house is quiet right now but soon will be filled with activity as we hustle around to eat some breakfast before going to church. As I write this, I do not know if Justin is here or not because I had to go to bed before he made his final decision about running back home to pick up some stuff or not. Only Justin and I went to the candlelight service last night as the Schippers had attended the children's service with me earlier and just wanted to sit tight after their long car ride. The candlelight service was very nice, and had the special treat of having our dear member, Gordy, in attendance. I went to see at the hospital this past week, but he had been released to the nursing home. Gordy was the man of the hour, except for Jesus, at church last night!
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Another special feature last night was that the four young men who basically grew up together were all in attendance and I was able to capture them in a photo. Mark, Justin, Robbie, and David used to all hang out around my friend, Cindy's, van between Sunday school and worship because she would go to her car to have a smoke and some quiet---right! Her sons are Mike and David, and the kids sort of congregated around 'fun' Ms. Cindy. The moms and grandma's of these fellas have asked for copies of the picture so once I get a spare moment will download the photos and print them off. Twila came to me after we took the picture and said it made her eyes tear up to see the four guys together again....I hope they cherish it as much as their families do! It likely does because Robbie was the one who told me the four guys were in church together...he knows.
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Part of the candlelight reading and song service was singing "O Holy Night" as Robbie played the organ. On the 3rd stanza another man, Kurt, took over on the piano as Robbie sang so beautifully. Kurt does not sight read music, plays by memory and also played several more carols and hymns during the offering. For the children's service, I got all choked up when the little ones, dressed as shepherds and angels, came walking down the aisle, holding hands and singing. I could barely see straight after that, Daniel looked so absolutely darling and sings his little heart out. Such enthusiasm at this age! They truly loved to tell the story of Jesus and His love!
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It was nice to see and hear the young people being involved in the services this year, with three young men doing readings or recitations in the children's service, and three older young men (huh?) doing readings during the candlelight service. Besides celebrating Jesus' birth, it was just a hoot to see folks I had not seen in a while and just plain greeting folks at CHRISTmas! Even my friend, Wendy, came to church and I got her to sit with us. I had tried and tried in November to track her down, unsuccessfully, so last night I got her phone numbers that work so she can no longer escape!!
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It is time to move around in the house to wake my guests. Make coffee, that will work! My family and friends at First German are getting some sort of surprise this morning, and we are speculating that perhaps the former pastor might be stopping by for a visit. He is the man who sang to Mom last year at his going away party, "Now the Light Has Gone Away", in German, as a special tribute to her. No dry eyes in that house that night and maybe they will get to see each other again today! Only guessing that is what the surprise will be....I will let you know what it is when I find out!
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Merry CHRISTmas!