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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Amazing Grace

Many couples getting married find themselves deeply emotional at their rehearsal in the church, their first time hearing and repeating the vows they will make at their actual wedding. Some claim the rehearsal is helpful with getting it all out so that when they are in front of family and friends at the service, they can hold it together better. My friend's husband-to-be cautioned her not to start crying at the altar during the actual service because he would cry, too, and his entire persona of Mr. Cool would be ruined! Well, that is how I felt today after worship, like this was the wedding rehearsal and I should get it out of my system. The children and grandchildren of my friend, Gordy, whose funeral will be held on Tuesday, were meeting with The Maestro. Two of the grandsons play the same instruments their grandpa played, the saxophone and clarinet. Terri, his daughter, had found musical arrangements for hymns which had been written by her daddy many years ago, and that is what the boys were using for their rehearsal, so they can play at the funeral service. We are having an orchestra!
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They were playing/practicing while many of us scampered about taking down the tree, Nativity set, wreaths from the doors, etc., and vacuuming up the mess from the tree removal. I heard portions of "Amazing Grace", "I Know That My Redeemer Lives", and "How Great Thou Art" being played, and as I took apart the Nativity scene, tears were running down my cheeks. I saw one little boy looking at me, and I just smiled at him, saying how much I love those hymns. He just sort of nodded and walked away. Most people at church are accustomed to my tears flowing anyway, but today especially, since we were preparing for the funeral service of our departed friend and family member.
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On the up side, many of us were thinking "Packer game" today, with Cindy wearing every piece of Packer apparel she owns...well, maybe not, but she was dressed to the nines! Their pipes froze overnight due to the cold temperatures, so her hubby had to go outside with a towel which he had preheated in the dryer to defrost the pipes so he could make coffee. And it worked! It never occurred to me that our pipes here could freeze, which would be a disaster, but our elevator is doing funny things instead of showing the numbers for the floors--showing instead double letters of the alphabet! First in ascending order and then descending order, thankfully not showing "XX" when it gets to my floor! I was concerned that it might not be operating properly but it picked me up and dropped me off at the correct floors. Fine with me!
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Last night was awesome with a blast of culture, beginning with dinner at Juliette's. Justin got there well before me, somehow arriving nearly 30 minutes prior to our reserved time. I arrived in the dining room right on the money so I did not have to feel badly about him waiting there. We ordered from the quick serve menu that they use on "show nights', with each of us having the roast pork with raisin sauce, sweet potatoes, and julienne veggies. He ate half my meat, half the potatoes, and all the veggies, plus half my cheese with broccoli soup. What a guy! I ate half my cheesecake but he did not finish it off. We made our way across the street to the symphony hall and waited for the doors to open so we could find our seats.
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Rachel, from Victory, had ordered the tickets for us wwaayy back in June, as she had privileges due to being a season ticket holder. Justin and I were not sure if we would sit with Rachel and her hubby or not but we found ourselves in the second from front row, right side, just below where my box seats used to be. Justin teased Rachel when she came that we had to sit down the stairs now instead of up above. Her brother, Joel, came with her, since her hubby opted to stay home with their little guy and watch TV. Joel appreciated the offer of being able to see and hear Itzhak Perlman play with the orchestra, or the orchestra play with him. Justin was not blown away but, as I told him, some day he will appreciate what he experienced. He is often like this, like his mama, with high expectations. Mine were met---his, well, he did not know what they were in the first place! Perlman played divinely, totally by memory, not one piece of music in front of him. He walks with canes or braces on each arm, and the Concertmaster, Phillip, held his violin and bow for him as he made his way across the stage. Wow, what a show and what a talented man! Once I got home and under the covers, I was still wound up and took a while to get to sleep, going over the events and fine time spent with my favorite guy, two of my other favorite people, and Itzhak! More amazing grace!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Kim,

I'm glad you enjoyed Perlman!! He is an awesome violinist!!

We had such a good time at the birthday party!! Amanda is such a joy! She did not have a nap, and was a delight the whole evening!! We did not hear one wimper out of her!! Matthew put a slide show together of her first year. I sat next to him while we watched it and he is just like his mama! He was wiping tears, and he said he had watched it 5 times to make sure it was right! Of course Tom and I both wiped a few tears too!!
I will have to bring it along to show you!

Must get ready to watch the game! Go Packers!!
Linda J

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Linda J.!

I told Rachel last night that you said you saw Itzhak many moons ago in Manitowoc, WI, and she was so surprised he would go to a small town like that. Mom said that Sigmans were instrumental in getting him to come, which is excellent.

I got tears just thinking about Matthew and the love he has for his daughter. Like Gumpa and Nina have for Amanda, but yours is admiration for your son's devotion! yes, bring it along!

My soup is cooking away in the kitchen and it smells awesome in here!

Go Pack Go!

Darla said...

Such a productive day today...and elevators scare me if they don't have windows...I feel enclosed in. I'm such a baby when it comes to that. Maybe the displays were frozen. And I've never heard about putting a warm towel on the pipes! Glad it worked! Coffee in the morning is important.

I miss going to church and visiting with my church friends. Our home church is in Lubbock and haven't been able to find one since moving to Tulsa. Who knows...maybe one day we'll make it back to West Texas! We do keep up with our church family in Lubbock thru Facebook!


Have a great evening and stay warm Kim!

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Darla!

I am sure there are churches where you live now. In fact, there is a church called Mt. Olive in Tulsa on 31st street,which is the same Synod as mine. I can hook you up!

It was a lazy but productive day, somehow being both. Sadly, the big football game I was so excited about ended up in overtime with my team losing. My soup was quite tasty but my appetite was lost as was the game.

My concern with the elevators was that it would quit working but I do not worry generally about using it. It is nearly brand new so has my confidence. I understand that the cold is affecting the system, which still allows it to go up and down, obviously!

Snug and warm in my bed,

Kim