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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

A little food for thought to hold you over....

.....until I get on-line at my mom's!
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My now roommate and long-time friend, Joanne, sends a newsletter to her clients on a monthly basis. This month's was of particular interest to me and thought I'd share a few thoughts with my readers. The subject matter is more like New Year resolutions than CHRISTmas wishes but here's a sampling of what it suggested:
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The first suggestion is to take a pro-active approach to life and work, not waiting for things to happen to or around you, take responsibility for yourself.
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Keep the end in mind (we Christians already do that!) but, in this case, it means to set a goal and work toward it, don't be a rudderless ship!
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Prioritize! Love this one, but not enough to do it myself yet. This means to avoid wasting time and effort, and prevent less than superb performance. (Please remember I am paraphrasing).
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Listen to others, no matter how lame their argument----this does not mean you have to do what is suggested by them, only give them an ear and hear them out. When they are done with their piece, give yours and expect others to honor your turn at the wheel, as it were.
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Recognize the gifts and blessings other people bring with them, and put them to use if you can. Mainly this would apply to the workplace, as many of these suggestions do, but often in everyday living, people need to have a place to use their special "gift".
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Make sure you take time to recharge your batteries, don't allow yourself to get worn down by life, but rather, be invigorated by it!!!!
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Some suggestions to simplify your existence include setting up as many bills and monthly obligations on automatic payment so less thought is required to manage your household bills and expenses; set aside time to pamper each other, whether it is helping out with kids so the spouse can get her nails done, or the other spouse watch a sporting event on TV with minimal interruption. Remember these are borrowed in part from Joanne's newsletter and in part for me, so if you don't like them, they came from her newsletter!!!!
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I'll be away from the computer for a day or so, having to use my mom's dial-up service in WI so please don't be upset if I am not posting daily. Please pray our traveling safety tomorrow as we fly into the snowy north and for Justin's safe travel on Monday as he comes north for CHRISTmas!

2 comments:

Suzanne Chappell said...

Dial up!? Eek! How will you survive? Every now and then we have to step away from our computers... gasp!

Have a lovely, warm time! Take your heating pad! I read on the PopUp message board the other day, it was -27 somewhere in Minnesota. It is beyond me why anyone would want to habitate (sp?) in such conditions!

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Suzanne,

We made it to WI, safe and sound and quite cold! Only 14 above zero here tonight, with a snow storm predicted for overnight. I will get by on the dial-up, writing the posting on Word and then copying it ove to keep her phone line open. I can work within the system! We will keep as warm as we can, layering, it's all in the layering!

Hugs,

Kim