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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Looking back, something I am good at!

Let's see---I think I'll go with "Georgia" font today and have Linda in mind as I do this....only a few more weeks until she comes to visit.
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Reading my first postings from one year ago today, I had to chuckle a bit at some of the content and the comments. My niece, Alayna, wrote that I was "having wwaayy too much fun with this" blogging thing. The content of my posting on the 15th was about the window cleaner being here and that it was terribly cold outside, 54 degrees above zero! And the windows need washing again something fierce. I told Joanne that I'd like to have the windows washed before Linda arrives as well as Joanne's daughter, Heather, who is coming for a visit. We will have a hen house 'round here!
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Linda has already come up with a recipe to make for our ladies' group brunch on the 7th, an apple French toast recipe that her family loves for her to make. The 'active' members are cooking for the invited guests and we'd like casserole-style breakfast foods plus fruit and perhaps some bakery to serve. I promised Linda that would be the only thing that should take our time and certainly she already knows enough ladies at my church to make herself at home while I am busy. Neither Linda nor I know strangers!
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The heat has been running in the house, some overnight and again this a.m. as we are experiencing a Florida-style cold snap. Some predicted lows are in the 20's this week, which I know is not that bad where you might be reading this, highs of minus 2 for today in some areas of the country.....Sorry 'bout that! Our high on Friday is predicted to be only 48!! I am no longer, nor ever was, the hardy sort, and am rejoicing that the sun is shining in on me, making me squint against it.
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Last night when I went to bed, I heard loud talking from outside so I turned off my TV in order to hear what was going on. The light from the moon was incredibly brilliant shining across my bed that I even considered not turning the TV back at all. Lynn, I even saw "happiness" sparkling on my ceiling as if it were the sun reflecting off the water in the pool! The voices were just that, some menfolk on a balcony, smoking I'd guess, and talking too loudly for that time of night. Fortunately it didn't last and I could resume my movement toward sleep.
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Joanne is all bundled up and on her way out the door for the day. Normally she's a pretty hot mama but lately she's been feeling the chill both outside and in, which offers me some comfort that I am not totally crackers about being cold. Before she left, she asked me what my plans were for the day-----sort of a 'round about way of asking if anyone was going to be with me today. She said she didn't want to mention "Timmy" in case I didn't want to talk about it, but I assured her it was fine. In order to get to the topic she instead asked me what day his birthday was. I told her about having lunch with Justin at the cemetery at noon today and then going to church for a committee meeting. I guess today we won't be eating our sandwiches outdoors, though, like Cindy and I did!
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Mom is sending me some money to contribute to Timmy's memorial for the preschool, a tuition assistance fund I've established, and she told me to keep watch for it to come. I am not really good about going to my mailbox unless I am expecting something important or looking for CHRISTmas cards, which I love getting. So, yesterday, I stopped on the way upstairs after Bible class to get the mail. There were three envelopes from my attorney, big fat ones, stuffed with all sorts of information needed for the Court. I am still ticked about them dropping the ball on the response to the initial suit, our counter-suit, I guess, but both the assistant and the attorney assured me it is alright. My advice is to not try to take care of stuff like this over the holidays, too many things can fall through the cracks or get messed up!
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Neal is away from the microphone today and is replaced by Herman Cane (sp) whose voice does not resonate with me, so instead I am listening to music saved on my computer, my Sarah girl is singing for me. My father-in-law gave me some money for CHRISTmas which I'd more or less designated toward the purchase of supplies for my printers. Late afternoon Tuesday I was sitting here deciding what to do about dinner and Bible study---should I call Linda or Judy to see about dinner??? I decided to heat up leftovers then go to Office Max to get my print cartridges so I can work on my photos some more this week. Well, as I was half-way through my scalloped potatoes, Linda called to ask where I was. They were all sitting at Cracker Barrel waiting for me!!! She'd sent out an e-mail on Monday setting up the arrangements but for some reason or another, her e-mails don't come through to me. Judy toyed with calling me to share a ride but didn't, and I didn't call her either. In no time at all I got over there, before they'd even gotten their salads so I had a soda and half an apple dumpling, and good laughs! Judy came along to Bible study so we had a nice group last night.
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This means I didn't get to the store for my printer cartridges but I did get to mail my tax deposit from the post office to assure it is properly post marked. I don't want the government to have that money one moment sooner than I have to send it! Since I had to pass Winn Dixie anyway, I pulled in to get butter and a couple other things we needed at home. If I ask Joanne to pick up something, she either gets "organic" items or something more costly than is needed. Yes, she is a huge fan of Whole Foods which opened in Mandarin recently, and they actually sell "organic" butter and milk! Imagine that! I don't notice anything different other than the shape of the sticks but it certainly doesn't have to be 'organic' to smear on my non-organic bread! Joanne has a box of cereal that even lists "twigs" as an ingredient!!! Yeah........

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

God morning,
I am looking forward to brunch at your church. I always enjoy visiting with the ladies there. You and I are a lot alike, in that we never meet a stranger.
You are in my thoughts and prayers today!

Love you lots,
Linda

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Linda!

Thanks so much for keeping Justin and me and my family in your thoughts today, and always!

Yup, we are so much alike, it is downright frightening!

Love you, too!

Kim

kathy b said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you today. Hugs . . . Kathy

Suzanne Chappell said...

Hi Kim,
I wasn't aware yet of the brunch on the 7th, so I will be sure to tell John he's in charge of the kids that morning! Sounds like fun! It will be nice to see your friend Linda again! I'll always think of her at the airport, as I'd seen her leaving quite awhile ago, as I was headed out for business as well!

As I called and left a birthday message for Caitlyn this morning, I also think of you in my heart and prayers today! May your heart be as happy as your soul, my friend even on this "difficult" day!

God Bless,
Suzanne

Kim Lahaie Day said...

God bless you, Kathy, for thinking about Justin and me today! I greatly appreciate it! See you Sunday!

Love,

Kim

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Suzanne,

My blessings abound today as I receive this lovely, loving messages!

Linda mentions you often as you were the one to "capture" the stud muffin, as she calls him, with the photo on the famous fishing trip our church took. Tommy had so much fun and the rest of us were miserable!!!

Glad you two will be reunited under much finer circumstances!

Love,

Kim

Suzanne Chappell said...

I totally forgot about that fishing trip! Yes, you were all quite miserable! I didn't understand why you spent all that money to go, when you all get sea sick! The "stud muffin", I think you are talking about the deck hand! I'll have to find a picture that I have of him up close! Ooooh, he was a hottie!

Hmm.. wonder where I have that picture! Probably on one of my cd backups! I have a mission now! Find the hot deck hand picture!

brewers4life said...

Hi Kim, wanted to say that I love you and am thinking about you...like I always do I read the article published in the MLHS newsletter of Timmy and I cant help but be comforted that he is happy as can be...love you and take care this week.

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Suzanne,

Why indeed!?!?! Tommy loved it and that's all that matters....We have great stories to tell now and Linda's miraculous "cure" when she saw the deck hand with his shirt off! Ethel said she never saw anything so amazing as when Linda snapped back to life!!! Good times!, but never again!

Hugs,

Kim

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Jamie,

Thanks so much for writing and touching base with me!

It is truly comforting to know that Timmy experiences for eternity the "bliss beyond compare" we cannot even imagine! Forever and forever....amen!

Love and hugs,

Kim

Anonymous said...

Sorry I missed your call back. Glad that you are keeping busy. I hope you enjoy your time with your friend. I will take your 48 degrees right now. At least you ae abouve zero. LOve Jill

Tarren Prange said...

Be sure to listen to "Jerusalem the Golden" today. What comfort!

Anonymous said...

Hey my friend,

Another year has passed. It still seems like yesterday when I drive down Blanding and pass Timmy's place. Don't tell my Mom, but I forgot to call her on her birthday yesterday but remembered what today was.
So much has happened in the past 8 years, in my family and yours. Yet Timmy is alway there. When I taught Sunday School and my class was quiet. I knew why and answered every one of their questions once I got them to talk. All grace goes to God. We had three weeks of skipping lessons because these kids just needed to talk. One of them was Ryan B. and look at him now.

The bottom line is he'll never be forgotten, but God has made us stronger. And I am so thankful for that.

I love you my friend, and as I've told you many times, I want to be just like you when I grow up! We need to meet for sandwiches again, where ever you want. I usually get out of work at two since my hours have changed. It's a state inspecter issue. So lets do this soon!

I still remember the ground keeper guy riding up to us as we ate in the back of your van and asked us if our sodas were beer!

Stay strong sister!
Love,
Cindy

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Jill,

Yes, thanks for the phone call, when I heard your message I could tell you were a bit emotional. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers and remembrances!

Hugs,

Kim

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Dear Tarren,

You know me so well! In fact, I referenced part of "Jerusalem....." when writing to my nephew, Jamie, in the comments! "What radiancy of glory, what bliss beyond compare...."

Love and hugs,

Kim

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Dear Cindy,

My eyes started to drip before I even read your comment, because I knew you'd have something wonderful to say. Yes, look at Ryan today! The SS kids were probably more able to talk with you openly than their own parents (like Justin did the 1st time his father left) and you stepped up. Thanks for that! I am always in for having sandwiches and I'll bring the cooler of sodas, not beer!!

Love and hugs,

Kim

PKNOX said...

Kim

Great to see you after such a long time. Love the blog site, I will be smiling all day now.

Pete

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Pete:

Thanks for visiting my site and I hope you continue to do so----you will have one up on Mary now!

Having you smile the rest of the day simply warms my heart, and means my mission is accomplished!

Hugs,

Kim