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No longer on the river and, again, an empty nester. Back to living on Fleming Island and making some more friends!

Friday, March 20, 2009

Judy has more good news!

During the Building Committee meeting last night, my phone was going nuts with one friend calling twice just to make sure I got the message. My friend, Jen, was wondering if I still had my left-handed golf clubs and if so, could her son use them? Yesterday afternoon when Justin and I were getting the roosters and hens down from the shelf, I saw my clubs in the corner and had the passing thought that they probably would never see the light of day again. I really enjoyed the golfing, mostly at the driving range, but not enough to want to go out and do it again. In fact, my clubs had crossed my mind Wednesday night, when I was thinking of things to send to Joanne's yard sale. Thursday, on the way to Victory, I drove past a lighted driving range and thought about my clubs....and then Jen called. Hmmmm, what would you call that?????
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One of the other calls was not about golfing at all---in fact, it was more like a singing telegram, telling me "God is so good"!!! Judy had gotten an excellent report from the oncologist indicating no spreading of her cancer or further involvement. Leave it to Judy to write a song about it, with the refrain asking for more "thank you" prayers to the Lord for His mercy on her. Please, ladies of age, make sure you get your diagnostic tests done so you can avoid an unpleasant or life-ending experience! Judy is now, and already was, a champion of the breast cancer survivors. She volunteers in an area mammo clinic and so has first-hand knowledge and contact with the ladies who come in. Go Judy! And thank you, Lord Jesus, for sparing my friend!!!!
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I guess I should not worry too much about not being a good golfer because I am a better bowler than PresBO, but I shouldn't feel too proud because after all, well, he told a bad joke about his skills on Leno last night..............Tennis lessons were fun, too. Andy, the pro at Eagle Harbor, really liked me, but made me promise not to tell my then spouse that I had better hand/eye coordination than did he! Both of us were taking lessons at the time, him first and then me. Justin, Timmy, and I would go to the tennis courts and use the ball machine to shoot balls at us. Once, Timmy was standing at the "receiving end" of the court, trying to pick up the balls, when, WHAM!!, I hit him smack in the forehead with a ball! He was such a trouper, that kid, it bothered me far more than it bothered him!
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The recent death of the actress who died after falling on the skiing practice hill brought back to mind my brush with learning to ski. And I did! Once I learned how to ski, I went to the lodge to wait for the hot doggers to come back. But, while we were learning how to ski, four of us from our company, I was the only one who never fell down. In fact, my former spouse was taken over on the side for some private instruction while I continued skiing in circles and around where the instructors told us to go.
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Even getting on and off the gizmo which takes people up the mountain involved training and somehow I managed to get on and off without falling. Mostly my goal was to not fall, because heaven only knows how in the world I would get back up again! I felt like a champ because I stayed upright, which is truly the intent of skiing. Sometime later on this trip, my already estranged spouse critically announced that only someone who has fallen is considered "a real skier". Oh, don't worry, I was not robbed of my pride! I was not the one taken off on the side for remedial training! And I did not fall and bump my head, like the actress did. Was that not the weirdest thing?
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Today brings a phone meeting with my attorney to discuss a few matters yet unsettled, as we await the Judges' signature on his recent decision from the hearing. After this phone call, I am available until 1:00 pm when I have a lunch meeting with Louise from Art Guild, my "boss" regarding new members and their mentoring. We are blazing new territory as there is no established plan for "assimilating" people into the group. I have some knowledge of assimilation (I used to be a Borg!) so we can get a plan in place to help folks in the Art Guild. The Guild has grown by nearly three times its former size and this was not usually a problem. Everyone knew everyone, but now, not so much. I feel like Kramer, wanting to put up photos and names of everyone to help identify newcomers (re: The Kiss Hello episode). Funny!!!!!
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This evening my time is being spent with some church family as we are invited to a Wine Tasting party in Mandarin. The hostess, Tamara, told me to invite "my girls" so I have two friends joining me in the fun. Tomorrow is a Tupperware party at Wendy's house, to help her friend kick off her business. Truly there must be some other way to make extra money than Tupperware but Jennifer and I are going to go to show our support. Lisa, get ready for more Tupperware!!!!

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Happy first day of spring! What a great day to take a day off for. I had to chuckle a little at that you should invite your girls. I think of Stacy and Clinton calling breasts "the girls." Mama and I are going out for lunch today and I plan to do some cleaning. Need to get the front hallway cleaned out. Have some more toys to take to Repeat Performance. Spring hugs!

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Jill!

No comments about learning to golf, ski, or play tennis.....on the same "par" as cleaning off the porch!!!

Some of my friends refer to themselves as being my posse, so it is funny that Tam asked me to bring some of my girls! I get the joke, though, about WNTW. Have a good lunch! Perkins? Culvers???

Spring has sprung hugs,

Kim

kathy b said...

Oh my, good for you and the skiing story. I've only gone skiing one time without any instruction and every time I got off the ski lift, I just plopped down in the snow, lifted up my arms and waited for the ski lift guy to pick me up!

I'm thrilled to be a part of your posse, girls, crew or whatever . . . it just means good times, laughter, lots of smiles and great memories!!

Hugs - see you soon . . . 5:30?

Anonymous said...

Hi,
I get a chuckle out of your sporting experiences!!! I love to golf...I'm not very good but it's fun anyway.
I've never snow skied, but have water skied.
So glad your friend got a good report. My sister Patty was diagnosed just 2 yrs ago. She is doing very well. Her daughter is doing the avon 3 day walk and I am sponsoring her. All I can say is a few minutes of discomfort can save your life. so go take care of it.....and don't tell horror stories to those that have never been. It doesn't encourage them to go.
Have a happy day!

Diane

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Kathy B.:

Posse Member Extrordinaire!!

Actually, 6:15 at church will be fine, as it is a short ride to Mandarin with the event starting at 7:00 pm. We do not want to be the first ones to arrive...

I did not know a ski lift man would come along to get me up...I may have missed out on an adventure by not falling!!! Like broken bones!

You raise me up!

Kim

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Dee Dee!

Now, see? You have one up on me with water skiing because I have never tried that one...It sounds like you enjoyed the driving range more than playing a game, like me! I laugh too loud to play on the course!!!!

I also took dive instruction, passed the book portion but did not feel we had enough training before our instructor took us for the test dives. I was never certified, but like to say I am "certifiable"!!!! Sure do enjoy snorkling, though, and the world can live without seeing me in my dive skin one more time!

I will say a thanksgiving prayer for Patty's recovery!

Hugs,

Kim

Anonymous said...

Hi Kim,
I was surprised to read all your stories about skiing and golf. You know what I think of golf, a nice walk spoiled by a little white ball.
As for skiing, I could have gotten free lessons, my dad helped the guy that owned Hidden Valley get his ski lift up and running. That was back in the day, when I was in high school. It did not interest me in the least!!! I probably would have broken my neck!!!

Hope you have fun with your girls. I thought the same think as Jill when I read that!

Love and cold springy hugs
Linda

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Linda!

I think it's fixin' to snow here, the way the temperature has dropped, and the white caps on the river!!!

You could have learned to ski for free! It might have strengthened your leg muscles, or put a cast on them anyway!

Glad you found my attempts at exercise and sport so funny---me, too!!!! Once in awhile I think I would like to play tennis again, as long as the ball came right to me....

Have a fun weekend with the baby---and her parents!

Kim

Anonymous said...

I thought I wouldn't touch the sport stories. Didn't get the porch done cuz it was chilly out there. Took mama to Culvers and must tell you that Gail(Olp) says hello. We also went to Walmart. I had to buy a new toilet seat. Now I have to try and get the old one off and the new one on. Also like your little pun.

Kim Lahaie Day said...

Hi Jill!

You might not touch the sports but I would probably not attempt to replace a toilet seat. Lynn and you really do know how to take the bull by the horns around the house, much better than me. Mostly because I either had a handy man through marriage, or through the business or through my friends!

Instead of replacing the toilet seat, I bought a whole new toilet!!!!!!!!

Often I see Gail when I am up in Manty and go to Culvers. She used to work at Shopko, too, where I would run into her, but, sadly, not at church!

Hey, I guessed right about the restaurant, though, didn't I???

Hugs and warmth,

Kim